I dreamt my mother in law's( ML) uncle came to visit me. He wanted her to know he was there. Then he told me, to tell ML what I needed to tell her.
Then I woke up.
I have learned to listen to my dreams and not question them.
ML is dying. She is in the care of hospice.
Hubby called yesterday to say that this mom's condition had changed. I went to see her.
I sat with her while she slept and when she woke up she seemed to know me. She said she had a bad dream. I took my opportunity.
I told her I had a dream about her Uncle Dan and he wanted her to know he was there. She stopped and then smiled. A real smile.
"He is strong," she said.
I said he was there if she needed him.
I went on. I told her I knew her stories and I will tell her stories to her grandchildren. I thanked her for taking me in to her family. I thank her for being kind to me. I told her I loved her and then I hugged her.
She hugged me back. A real hug.
We both cried and then she asked me to tell her one of her stories. And I did.
I was given a gift. In the midst of all this pain, I was given a gift.
Thank you.
